Celebrity Response To Question of the Day: What are some reasons for someone to CHEAT in a relationship?

Yesterday we posted the question, "What are some reasons for someone to CHEAT in a relationship?", on Twitter to hear what our celebz had to say about the question. We got Responses from Dustin Michael, Missy Elliott, Maxwell, Fabian Washington, Kandi, Lil Mo and Quinton Arron. OnPointCelebz Just wants to send out a great big thank you to the celebz for taking the time to answer our question of the day.

Before we go into the celebz responses I just want to give a brief overview my answer to the question of the day. First off CHEATING is unacceptable in any situation. I have met people that have told me they wanted to leave their relationship but they didn't want to hurt their significant other. All I can say to that is either way their significant other is getting hurt. I would rather someone tell me they don't feel our relationship is working out and break up with me. Than just constantly go behind my back and cheat. That's just being deceiving.

I am a strong believer on being faithful in a relationship. To all those people who feel their in a situation where they may cheat, do the right thing and evaluate your situation. Would you be willing to give up your relationship with your significant other to be with this person? Do you see a future with this person? If the answer is no then you need to sit down with your partner and talk about your problems. If you don't have any problem in your relationship then you just need to get help because you may have other problems you need to work out.

 Dustin Michael's Response:

“@onpointcelebz: @dustinmichael00 What are some reasons for someone to CHEAT in a relationship?” There's never a good reason for it really
— Dustin Michael (@Dustinmichael00) January 26, 2013

 Missy Elliott's Response:

@onpointcelebz becuz their partner must not be giving them the satisfaction they looking for. Or they just got a damn cheating issue
— Missy Elliott (@MissyElliott) January 26, 2013

 Maxwell's Response:

@onpointcelebz no reason is ever really good its lame but it happens.
— MAXWELL (@_MAXWELL_) January 27, 2013

 Fabian Washington's Response:

RT @onpointcelebz: @fabewash31 What are some reasons for someone to CHEAT in a relationship? <== money, looks, status, ect.
— FABIAN WASHINGTON (@FABEWASH31) January 27, 2013

 Kandi's Response:

@onpointcelebz if they're unhappy or maybe as payback for being cheated on.
— Kandi Burruss (@Kandi) January 27, 2013

 Lil Mo's Response:

RT @onpointcelebz: @thelilmoshow What are some reasons for someone to CHEAT in a relationship?<dopamine fades
— LIL MO the GODMOTHER (@THELILMOSHOW) January 27, 2013

 Quinton Arron

@onpointcelebz there is no reason if you wanna cheat then you should just end the relationship first... sounds harsh but hey.
— Quinton Aaron (@QuintonAaron) January 27, 2013

@onpointcelebz if you're with the one you belong with or love there is no room for anybody else.
— Quinton Aaron (@QuintonAaron) January 27, 2013

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WHAT LOVE REALLY IS!!!

  LOVE in my opinion is the most POWERFUL feeling that one can have. LOVE is supposed to be a BEAUTIFUL feeling, something that everyone in life should experience. When you are in LOVE it shows, it’s obvious that you can’t stand to be without your lover.  When you look at someone who is truly in LOVE, they have a ‘nothing bothers me’ attitude.

  Don’t get me wrong LOVE does have its turning points, where sometimes you may get in an argument with your lover. There is never a perfect relationship but it can be close, but there should never be a constant arguing in your relationship. If your partner puts you though crap all the time, they don’t LOVE you. When your lover CHEATS on you they are being disrespectful. Just because they tell you about their act doesn’t mean anything. They will confess then do the same thing over and over again, and just because they know all you want is the truth they will tell you the truth.

Something a lot of females need to realize that you being the main joint means nothing. Yes, they will come back to you because they know you will always be there. They are comfortable, that isn’t LOVE. Think about it if a person says they love you why must they cheat? What do they get out of it?

Another problem I see a lot is domestic violence. If you are unable to comfortable with your partner it is no longer LOVE, they are now controlling you. When you are afraid of doing things to tick them off, you become scared to leave them because of what their reaction maybe.

  Whenever people are in LOVE they let COMMON SENSE and LOGICS go out the window. I don’ want anyone to say they don’t have COMMON SENSE when you are in LOVE because that’s not true. You just choose not to listen to what your mind is telling you to do. You want to make something that isn’t working to magically change, but it can’t change with only one person.

  People that let a significant walk all over them are people that LOVE their partner more than they LOVE themselves, and in no way should that ever happen. You have to feel comfortable with yourself before trying to LOVE another person. When you RESPECT and CARE for yourself you will never let certain things slide in relationships.

Question of the Day: Would you forgive your signifcant other if they cheated?

Before you jump and say you would never forgive your significant other, think about the situation. You have to ask these questions. What is your significant others personality? If you know you are in a relationship with a person that is very flirtatious and have cheated before then you may think twice. They may try to say you did this and you did that, but remember its natural for them to act this way because that's their personality. On the other hand you maybe be wrong also because you set them off and they are already eager and you made it worse. But if you are in a relationship with a  person who deals with one person and one person only, then you have to think, Why would they cheat? what did I do to maybe set them off? or what didn't I do? Sometimes when a good person is driven to far in a relationship they seek sanctification in another person.
I know it sounds as if I am contradicting myself...I'm not. If you are with a natural cheated they may cheat for the hell of it, which means think twice before forgiving them. But on the other hand you could be with a cheater that is trying to change but you set them off to cheat. Then you have the good people who don't cheat at all no matter what, but you set them off and they find someone else that treats then correct.
It all depends on the person and how much they will take when in a relationship. This also comes to what your response to the situation maybe. You could be the wrong on or they maybe the wrong one. When I say you maybe the wrong one I'm saying you could have been treating this person horrible and they need someone who will treat them right. Its not right but you drove them to go to someone else. If you had communication and respect in your relationship maybe it wouldn't happen. I'm just trying to be honest.

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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME

Question of the Day: Why do people constantly make assumptions when in a relationship?

I know a lot of Individual's that constantly assume that their significant other is CHEATING. Yes, when your in a relationship you know your partner then anyone else...but why would you want to be in a relationship where you have to constantly have to watch behind your partner. This is not only annoying its frustrating, i know to you but also your partner. If your going to stress yourself out worrying about your significant other, why be in the relationship? Remember your in a relationship your not baby-sitting.
Sometimes your partner isn't cheating its just that you are scared. If you have problems going on in your life relationship wise don't drag one else into your mess. Workout your problems first, because assumptions can kill your relationship fast and you wouldn't want to loss someone special because of your personal problems.

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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME