Love/Relationship/Sex Talk 08/29 by onpointcelebz | Blog Talk Radio

Love/Relationship/Sex Talk Tonight at 11pm by onpointcelebz | Blog Talk Radio

Question of the Day: What Would Your Reaction Be If You Caught You Partner Watching Pornography/Masterbating?

   What would I do?...hmmm I absolutely don't know what I would say or do, but I can say I wouldn't be very happy. I feel that porn is just another form of entertainment, but isn't something that should be watched on a day to day basis.
   Masturbation on the other hand isn't something that I want to catch my partner doing, but this too isn't an awful thing. Masturbation is a natural part of life, at least that is what I have heard on TV and the Internet by experts.
   What I'm saying is if you choose to do either one of these, things that is your choice, just don't let anyone catch you doing it. Keep it to yourself...Private...at least that's how I feel.What about yall?

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Question of the Day: Do you let your friends make the decisions in your relationship?

   This is one thing at causes a lot of relationships to go down under. You cannot let your friends dictate what is right and wrong in your relationship that is your decision to make and you must make it on your own. I know that there maybe times when you want to hear another opinion, and that is fine, but don't let other peoples opinion change your way of thinking. Sometime, no most times when your friend is quick to say, "leave him or her they ain't not good", observe them. Meaning see what they have in their life, do they have a man or women? Are they stable in life? Most times when these answers are no they just want to see you in the same position as them and they don't want to see you happy. they are jealous. I'm not saying that there aren't good friends out there but when you have a good friend they ask questions before they may or may not tell you to leave. They ask what happen? why do you think they did what they did? What did you do to contribute to his/hers behavior? They try to get to the bottom of the situation and then help you to find a solution.
   There are situations where you are being abused and they tell you to leave. Something like that you listen to. If a man/women is abusing you, you need to walk out there is not talk it out going to counseling...No Get out of thr situation as soon as possible. that is one exception I say you listen to your friend if they tell you to leave. Abuse isnt a playing matter.
   Other then that make your own decisions about love. But do think about this, is the relationship worth working on? Do you see you and this person moving forward? Do they respect you as a person?
In the end it all comes down to what you feel is right.

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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME

Question of the Day: Would you forgive your signifcant other if they cheated?

Before you jump and say you would never forgive your significant other, think about the situation. You have to ask these questions. What is your significant others personality? If you know you are in a relationship with a person that is very flirtatious and have cheated before then you may think twice. They may try to say you did this and you did that, but remember its natural for them to act this way because that's their personality. On the other hand you maybe be wrong also because you set them off and they are already eager and you made it worse. But if you are in a relationship with a  person who deals with one person and one person only, then you have to think, Why would they cheat? what did I do to maybe set them off? or what didn't I do? Sometimes when a good person is driven to far in a relationship they seek sanctification in another person.
I know it sounds as if I am contradicting myself...I'm not. If you are with a natural cheated they may cheat for the hell of it, which means think twice before forgiving them. But on the other hand you could be with a cheater that is trying to change but you set them off to cheat. Then you have the good people who don't cheat at all no matter what, but you set them off and they find someone else that treats then correct.
It all depends on the person and how much they will take when in a relationship. This also comes to what your response to the situation maybe. You could be the wrong on or they maybe the wrong one. When I say you maybe the wrong one I'm saying you could have been treating this person horrible and they need someone who will treat them right. Its not right but you drove them to go to someone else. If you had communication and respect in your relationship maybe it wouldn't happen. I'm just trying to be honest.

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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME

What are three things your significant other must do to keep you interested in your relationship?

I am talking on a general scale. The three things that most people require is Loyalty, Respect, and excellent Sex.
Loyalty because if you don't have trust in a relationship their is no way it can work. One must be able to let their significant other to leave the house without worry where they maybe going or who they are with. You and your partner also have a certain respect level for one another. Last but not least, Sex which I feel has a certain level of importance because if you aren't being satisfied one is very tempted to leave or cheat or your significant other.

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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME

Question of the Day: Why do people constantly make assumptions when in a relationship?

I know a lot of Individual's that constantly assume that their significant other is CHEATING. Yes, when your in a relationship you know your partner then anyone else...but why would you want to be in a relationship where you have to constantly have to watch behind your partner. This is not only annoying its frustrating, i know to you but also your partner. If your going to stress yourself out worrying about your significant other, why be in the relationship? Remember your in a relationship your not baby-sitting.
Sometimes your partner isn't cheating its just that you are scared. If you have problems going on in your life relationship wise don't drag one else into your mess. Workout your problems first, because assumptions can kill your relationship fast and you wouldn't want to loss someone special because of your personal problems.

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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME

Question of the Day: What would you do if you and your ex are STILL in love but you can't forget your bad history together?

When you have bad history, depending on the situation, its better that you just forget about the relationship. Bad history can sometimes be an occurring thing. You may thing you both made an agreement that it will be different this time but i can guarantee it will happen again. Sometimes the situation is that one person really wants it to change but the other person feeds on the drama between you too. I know its hard sometimes when you really love someone and you want to make it work, but always think of yourself before thinking of them. Meaning think if it doesn't workout this time how will effect me? What will be my reaction if he/she walks out on me? These are thing you must take into consideration when dealing with ex's, because most times they know you better then you know yourself. They know what you will take and what you won't, what will make you happy and want won't. Never be a victim in an ex relationship situation know what your doing.


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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME

Question of the Day: Why is it so difficult for people to realize when they aren't wanted?

Many people don't know the difference between when they are wanted and not wanted. I feel if someone wants you, you don't have to chase them. They will come to you, I can guarantee that. We need to have more respect for ourselves and know that if someone doesn't want you their are plenty more men/women out there.

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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME

Question of the Day: Why does one get jealous when one hears their ex is in a relationship?

Once a person has broken up with their significant other we all assume that their feelings are broken too, but that's not always the case. A lot of individual's constantly get jealous of their ex's new girlfriend/boyfriend to the point where they may say and do crazy things. Why is that? We really want to know.


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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME

Question of the Day : What does a 'committed relationship' mean to you?

In our opinion Trust, Respect, and Loyalty are the main factor in a COMMITTED relationship. If you don't have this in you relationship its not COMMITTED just saying. Especially with our youth the get confused as to what commitment means. Commitment isn't that your girlfriend/boyfriend comes back to you at the end of the day. Its okay for them to mess around as long as they know who's most important. We have serious ly gotten tired of people saying that. They tramples all over Trust, Respect and Loyalty. Tell us what you think...

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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME

Would you let your significant other hang out with their ex? why or why not?

I personally wouldn't let my significant other hang out with their ex. Why whats the need? its your ex? If you really feel the need to meet then we can do a double date with her man and mine. I would be great. If i can get a good answer to why I should understand then maybe I will feel different. But for now i don't agree with that at all. That don't work with me.

Celebrity Opinions on Relationships 1

We asked your favorite celebrities, relationship questions & this is what they had to say ..or tweet (hehe) :

Question: What are your views on Open relationships?

Answers:

Zoe Myers, Choreographer and Actress

Tequan Richmond, Actor Rapper and Model

Jazze Pha, Singer and Songwriter

Brian White, Actor Producer and Model

Question: Why is it that men is considered a "Player" when they mess with multiple women, but a woman is considered a "Hoe" if she does the same, or less ?

Answer:

Tavior Mowry, younger brother of Tia, Tamera, and Tahj Mowry

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BY: NINA MARIE

Is an open relationship reasonable?

First i want to say to me open relationships are the worse thing that people can agree to. I had a conversation with a few females the other day that told me that open relationships are okay under certain conditions. So i said i have to write a blog on this and see what others think about this situation. I don't care what the condition's are i don't share my man with anyone point blank period.
Before i start i want to make it clear that i am not telling anyone how to think but i do want to hear others opinion to see if I'm just different.
One of the "conditions" where whenever the girlfriend comes around the other girl must dismiss herself and know her place. Two minutes ago her place was with your man now its..what? in the corner until you leave. Yeah whatever. The other "condition" was if as long as she doesn't come into your house. You already disrespected yourself enough to let another women or person even have the opportunity to be with your man so why does it matter where it happens? Just saying.
Again i really don't understand this whole concept. I'm not looking down on anyone I'm just speaking my opinion and I want to hear your too.
Tell your views maybe i will understand it more...I don't know though

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