Question Of The Day: Does your significant other respect you if he/she cheats?

This is a question I ask all the time. In my opinion a person that cheats can't possible respect you. How can you respect a person but you do things you know would potentially hurt them? When you have respect for a person you would never let another male/female have something negative to say about them or your relationship.
Words of advice, if you let your significant other cheat, and act like its okay, they will never respect you. Of course if you take them back they will come back, but they will never have the same level of respect for you. I've seen it happen many time.
I want to make it clear that if you choose to take someone back that cheated, you must put your foot down. Even though I don't recommend that, but we all have are reasons for doing what we do.
Just remember when your making decisions about your relationship always do what is best for you and don't makes decisions based on fear of being alone.

-Domonique Hume

Question of the Day: Would you forgive your signifcant other if they cheated?

Before you jump and say you would never forgive your significant other, think about the situation. You have to ask these questions. What is your significant others personality? If you know you are in a relationship with a person that is very flirtatious and have cheated before then you may think twice. They may try to say you did this and you did that, but remember its natural for them to act this way because that's their personality. On the other hand you maybe be wrong also because you set them off and they are already eager and you made it worse. But if you are in a relationship with a  person who deals with one person and one person only, then you have to think, Why would they cheat? what did I do to maybe set them off? or what didn't I do? Sometimes when a good person is driven to far in a relationship they seek sanctification in another person.
I know it sounds as if I am contradicting myself...I'm not. If you are with a natural cheated they may cheat for the hell of it, which means think twice before forgiving them. But on the other hand you could be with a cheater that is trying to change but you set them off to cheat. Then you have the good people who don't cheat at all no matter what, but you set them off and they find someone else that treats then correct.
It all depends on the person and how much they will take when in a relationship. This also comes to what your response to the situation maybe. You could be the wrong on or they maybe the wrong one. When I say you maybe the wrong one I'm saying you could have been treating this person horrible and they need someone who will treat them right. Its not right but you drove them to go to someone else. If you had communication and respect in your relationship maybe it wouldn't happen. I'm just trying to be honest.

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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME

What are three things your significant other must do to keep you interested in your relationship?

I am talking on a general scale. The three things that most people require is Loyalty, Respect, and excellent Sex.
Loyalty because if you don't have trust in a relationship their is no way it can work. One must be able to let their significant other to leave the house without worry where they maybe going or who they are with. You and your partner also have a certain respect level for one another. Last but not least, Sex which I feel has a certain level of importance because if you aren't being satisfied one is very tempted to leave or cheat or your significant other.

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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME

Question of the Day : What does a 'committed relationship' mean to you?

In our opinion Trust, Respect, and Loyalty are the main factor in a COMMITTED relationship. If you don't have this in you relationship its not COMMITTED just saying. Especially with our youth the get confused as to what commitment means. Commitment isn't that your girlfriend/boyfriend comes back to you at the end of the day. Its okay for them to mess around as long as they know who's most important. We have serious ly gotten tired of people saying that. They tramples all over Trust, Respect and Loyalty. Tell us what you think...

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BY: DOMONIQUE HUME